Survivor to thriver?! YES.

This has been a difficult week with Thanksgiving kicking off the holiday season, which in and of itself, is its own little dirty bomb of mixed emotions.  While I was taking a break from whatever marathon programming was on because of the holiday, I turned to the BBC where I saw the interviews with the…

Trump Tweetasaurus Rex

Oh the joys of President Elect Trump (aka PET for short) and his Twitter shit storms. They used to just be entertaining fodder but now there is that bit of that “OMG Jack the Ripper just jumped out of my closet and is going to kill me” feel about them because he has now been…

Self-awareness is a bitch!

13th Documentary After a few days of soul searching, I want to share something very personal. I’d just like to say that this post is really directed to the white community. It saddens me beyond belief that our country has chosen hate and that we have chosen a despicable man to represent us. Now there…

First comes love then comes marriage then comes……

I wanted to share a very interesting call I had with a friend of mine today about a topic I have discussed all too often with many friends over the years. My friend has been in a committed relationship for 10 years where she has created a lovely home with her partner. Now for at…

You fucked up a cupcake?! Seriously.

Recently I’ve become a huge fan of Yelp and other sites that allow you to leave your feedback for restaurants and other service providers. I feel like they should know if they have hit it out of the park or tanked altogether.  I love to go to a new restaurant be it big or small,…

At this point in my life…

At this point in my life is not only the title of this particular blog article but also happens to be the title of one of my favorite Tracy Chapman songs, which seems to be part of the soundtrack of my life right now. And at this point in my life, I’m reshaping the very…

Pimps, HOs and CEOs. Oh my!

  I gotta be honest I’m incredibly frustrated and having one of those moments in my life when you are faced with a whole wall of bullshit and you think to yourself “I gotta knock that shit down.”  So as you may or may not have figured out from my recent posts I live in…

Doesn’t play well with others.

In a recent article done by NPR Senator John McCain says that Republicans will block any nominee for the Supreme Court if Hilary Clinton is nominated President. NPR Article In my mind I can see them stomping their feet and thrashing around on the floor like spoiled little children or Yosemite Sam above when he…

Sweet dreams are made of this? Well I’m fucked.

Did you ever see the film A Million Ways to Die in the West? Do you remember the dream scene after he took the drugs the Indians gave him? Well that’s sort of what my dreams are like, usually very colorful and somewhat nuts. So last night was a very fitful night of sleep for…

I just don’t know what to do with myself.

Sad songs sung in a drunken stupor while you cry your face off, boring your friends to death with the mundane details of your relationship as you try to fill up that empty space left by their absence, and all the chocolate eaten in an effort to drown out your pain. The stages of a…

To be or not to be…

You know finding your way is often the rockiest road we can ever travel!  And trust me, age does NOT mean you’ll have your shit all figured out. I’ve been in transition mode for a while now.  The past few years have not been easy for me and I keep making moves thinking I’m heading…

“Even God can use Trump as an instrument.”

So what you are saying is Trump is a tool? I’d actually agree with that! As I watched CNN last night, I listened to a woman spouting so much stupidity that even the show’s host had that look on her face “I just can’t. How do you comment on something so stupid?” She actually just…